Something wonderful has happened here and I just need to talk about it for a moment. In a few instances, when I've said, "No" to something, the kids don't cry, complain or beg. Instead, they say, "OK," walk away, ponder quietly, and then create their own solution, free of charge, without suggestions from adults, on their own. I am so pleasantly surprised. I know this is how it used to be, how it should be, but in my household, it's a miracle. Let me enjoy it.
Case in Point #1 - The Wall Marble Run
Remember, back in our first year of homeschooling, we made a marble run on our wall? The kids remembered too. They were asking to do it again, and, "Where is all that cool pipe insulation stuff?" I informed them that it was so long ago, that "The Cleaning Fairy" must have tossed all the stuff away.
As I braced myself for a few tears, or at the least, begging to go buy it all over again, I opened my eyes to nothing. "Ok," they said and they walked away. They went into our craft closet, got out our big savings of empty toilet paper rolls, paper towel rolls, plastic bottles, and more. "Can we use tape on the walls?" "Here," I say as I hand them painter's tape. And off they went.
Later, I was presented with a most awesome Wall Marble Rollercoaster that they had worked really hard to create. All from items we already had. All on their own. All while I had my morning coffee.
Case in Point #2 - The LEGO Advent Calendar
Have you ever gotten a LEGO advent calendar? They are fun but VERY expensive. It is common for me to buy two of many items so that I don't have to deal with "sharing" issues. However, the LEGO advent calendar is so expensive, that I just can't buy two. Even buying last year's model is still very pricey. So, I have only purchased one and they have had to take turns opening odd/even days.This year, I decided to see if we could skip getting the LEGO advent calendars, leaving more money towards the "under the tree gift" money pool. Again, I braced myself for sad, long faces, heavy sighs, or loud comebacks. Instead, both kids just nodded their heads and said, "OK, we understand."
And again, without my help or knowledge, my kids (I think driven by my oldest one) made their own LEGO advent calendar. They had saved last year's box ( the outer one you see with the doors and scenery, and the inner box that has separate compartments for the pieces). They created 24 vignettes out of LEGO pieces to put into the separate compartments. Then they drew "instructions" and put them on the inside of the doors. After closing all the doors, they had a little trouble with pieces falling from one compartment to another (probably due to sagging of the reused, inner box). No problem! They just turned it on its side, to use gravity in their favor.
It's during moments like this that I am most proud of them. I can hear the critics saying it should always be like this, but it hasn't been for us. I really believe that slowing our family down and homeschooling is what is bringing this lifestyle into our lives, as it should be.
